Step 2, Establish Position!

Step 2, Establish Position!

Jayi Kemp Jkempga419@gmail.com

So things are going good, you let the cat out the bag and that special person is still there,

awesome! You have disclosed things, he has told you things, and I bet that connection is getting deeper; do you feel that tingly feeling in your chest yet? It’s cool, who hasn’t been there, it’s called butterflies, but before you guys start having unprotected sex and deflowering each other (LOL) you guys should seriously consider establishing each other’s positions, so that you know where you stand in that person’s life.

I have learn it is better to know then to assume you know in these situations, at times people will front or attempt to portray a significant other while courting somebody, but if it is not time to play step – daddy, or play house for that matter, I suggest you don’t. Progressing in a relationship to fast can lead to a disaster; trust me; nothing hurts more than watching an investment go south right after investing into it. It’s like the stock market; nobody plays the stock anticipating their investment is going to flounder as soon as they buy into, no one!

And that theory applies to relationships as well, so the best thing you guys can do for one another is establish exactly who you are and who you are going to be to this person early.  So if you just want a special person to go the movies with and the occasional dinner when you’re able to go out, then state the specifics so that there is no confusion. And if you’re hungry for love and would like the whole enchilada well that’s cool as well, just make sure that they are down for it as well, and then start building towards that goal, but that doesn’t mean play house right away, unless they are as serious about it as well, and there are exceptions, so no I do not recommend a physic evaluation for everyone who think like that … LOL.

But be open and forthright and continue the positive momentum by stating exactly how you see that person instead of allowing things to get deeper and emotion to go further then what it has to and if all goes right who knows where this could lead to, maybe marriage?