Deal With The Heart (Don’t Let Emotion Deceive You)

The Heart is very Deceptive in nature 

Deal With The Heart (Don’t Let Emotion Deceive You)

Written By: Jayi Kemp

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Sometimes resolving a problem with a love one is easier than watching them move on to someone else, but what can you do when someone no longer wants to resolve the issue with you and looks forward to moving on to something new?

What? Get angry, fight, threaten, and force that person to deal with you by imposing yourself on them because you’re hurting over what the future holds for you? So instead of embracing the new, you allow pride to seep in and transform the rational person you are into an irrational, emotional being who has done away with conventional wisdom!

The heart has a way of dictating to you how it wants you to feel about a particular subject, but it’s on you and your subconscious (mind) to control it, rationalize with it, and deal with the matter before your heart lets it spiral out of control.

Believe me I have been there, the heart is very protective to the feelings of the person it embodies, that’s why you see people do things that might be out of character for them, such as walk – away from their families (children).

I don’t think no one ever attends to walk – away from kids unless for good reasons, and sometimes the bitterness of a relationship being over with can cause some men to drawback from their responsibility, life, and so forth without no conscious as to how their actions are going to affect those children in the long run.

But that is just one of the ramifications of not dealing with the heart, there are a slew of others that I do not even wish to share publicly, however I will say this; by not dealing with the issues on your heart, you are only leading yourself down a slippery slope.

Admitting something may be over with is not a bad thing, sure it may hurt, and hurt like hell for a minute, but by accepting that it is over you are only allowing yourself to grow and mature by leaps and bounds. My advice for whomever maybe going through a situation similar to this is this; love yourself more than the emotion you want to give to that situation, write down your worth and then keep it in your pocket, and remind yourself what really matters to you until your able to remember it on your own, and that’s my food 4 thought!